It is a little too late for me to get into what I have done and do, but I love this topic a lot and tomorrow will reply further. I had not seen those links, so thank you for sharing them and I will give them a good read too before I answer. I just love this forum lol
@amychutchinson Rather than write a new message, I will just edit this one. I connect to the solstices in a few ways. The first is through art. There is already something inherently powerful about creating something. I do it as a ritual. I start with meditation at the solstice, doesn’t matter which one. The energy is very different each time and for each solstice. I am rarely in the same place each time, so I take time to reflect on where I am at during the solstice and where I need to be. The idea for whatever art project I have comes to me usually during this time. I’m not going to lie, sometimes no inspiration comes and that’s why I have a harder time connecting and moving on to other ways. Still, art is a great way because of the intentions behind it, connecting to the energy of the moment, marking and honoring it, and finally, initiating the changes you want to make during that time is powerful.
The next way I make that deeper connection is to remove myself from the digital footprint that is our life and spend the solstice outside. I will do it on the days before and after, but mainly on the recognized day as much as possible. I recognize the shifting patterns of light as shifting patterns of emotions and action, of energy. This is part of the meditation from the first part, but it’s deeper and partially why it usually inspires me. I realize that the weather and light changes of the solstices are akin to our very own ups and downs. I connect to the energy all around me and accept where I’m at and try to heal myself, as well as the earth, the best that I can. I look at everything, note differences that I didn’t see earlier. I listen to the music of life around me. Depending on the solstice, there are different sights and sounds. I try to be around both day and night outside in nature to hear and see those sounds. The more I notice life around me in nature, the more I see the changes in it. The more changes I see in the life around me, the more I see how my own life has changed and brought into some kind of rhythm with the earth’s energies, somehow balances me and brings that deeper connection that we all need. The amazing thing is, that breathing must be natural for most of us because I try to breathe in the rhythm that I feel from the earth during this meditation.
During the summer solstice, I connect in a more energic and abundant way, such as dancing out in nature. Now, of course, I do not limit my dancing to this one day of the year, but on this day I make an effort and dance to the connection I feel to the earth. I’m married and that has afforded me other opportunities for connecting in a sexual way too. Now, combine energy work, breathing work, and sexual at the same time and the connections, at least for me, are awesome and awe-inspiring.
I also have a bit of time during each solstice for giving back. It doesn’t matter how big or small the giving is, or if it’s giving back to nature, or giving to other people … it’s a connection that I make and give back for all that I have taken in. I am a firm believer in reciprocity and how it helps us connect. There’s a reason why we feel so good when we give. It’s in our DNA I think lol We are hardwired to feel good when we help others. Even those who are greedy and stingy and refuse to help would feel better if they did, but it’s their addiction to money that changes things. Usually, those people are never too happy anyway. I think reciprocity is key in connecting to the earth. I have planted and potted various plants during the solstices. I go through my plants and herbs and take care of them or do herbal work. Like I will trim up my herbs, dry them, grind or sift them, and bottle them. I guess it’s not really connecting to nature, but it is natural and it’s a connection for sure. After I do all of that, then I give bottles away to family and friends, even neighbors and strangers too. I have set stuff outside with a sign that said “Free”. They disappear fast enough. I love that part of my holidays lol
I also love having fires going during the summer and winter solstice. I try, but cannot always do it, to keep the fires burning the whole day. This is the part my hubby loves too. I love fire. I’m not even sure why or how, but it can put me in a trance so easily … like my own guided meditation where the fire guides me. Seriously, I know people get lost in fire sometimes, but it happens so quickly and easily for me. It is so very relaxing, energizing, and there is no aspect of having a fire that I haven’t loved. I love the smell of the burning wood, the popping and cracking of it, the glow of the fire itself, the ash that goes into the garden, the way embers glow late at night and cast shadows over the ceilings, floors, and walls, as well as the heat that radiates from the fire. Yes, during the summer it can be a bit hot, but everything else is just so awesome. I wish I could do fires every single day lol
Lastly, I sun or moon gaze. I look at each thing around me in nature and see its position in nature, its function, and apply it to my own life. Look at a stone and see what you can learn from it and apply that to yourself. Aspects of nature can apply to aspects of our lives. It gives a new appreciation each time to something new you see. Mark the times you see the sun come up and go down. Note the position of the stars, planets, and other celestial bodies at night. Note things in the sky during the day, including clouds or the lack thereof. You can even see the moon at times during the day. Record it all. There’s just so much to observe. Write the tale of your solstice. Each year I try to find something new.